Tuesday, September 24, 2013

A Girl's Guide to... Friends and Ex-Friends: Part 2

Part 2!

Real friends are there for you. Real friends are honest, trust worthy, kind. Fake friends ignore you sometimes. They don't want to tell you everything you may deserve to know. 

Let's say there was a situation between you and one of your best friends. Maybe you had a fight. If you feel like you can't talk it out then don't. It depends on the situation or what the fight was about. If it's really serious, no one should force you to be friends with them. If you don't like someone, you don't have to be friends with them.

Really, most of the time it's common sense. You decide what's right!

If someone is overreacting about something, they most likely want attention and want you or someone else to be proven wrong. 

This was a short post but that's all there really is to say. If you have any requests for posts, comment below!

Also, have any of you gotten IOS7? I got it and I love it! :)

Jusqu'à la prochaine fois,

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

A Girl's Guide to... Friends and Ex-Friends

Friends.. They can be a great thing. Can.

Friends aren't always who you think they are. Don't be afraid to loose a friend. You will gain new friends that care more about you. Don't be afraid to stop being friends with someone either. Not just for no reason. But if a person that is your "friend" isn't really being a friend, then don't be friends with them. Focus on the people that care about you more than the rude "friends" that make fun of you. 

Sometimes taking a break from your friends is a good thing. I do that all the time. They think I'm weird, but I don't care because I'm just helping myself. I would definitely say that not all my friends are real friends. Some of my "friends" call me names, make fun of me, mess with me, etc. I know it's just for fun but honestly, it gets annoying. Like today at school, they were being super rude. So I took a break and didn't sit with them at lunch. I sat with another girl who has always been there to support me and help me. I tell her everything, and it's really nice to be able to have someone to lean on when you need help.

Choosing the right friends is a hard thing. Sometimes you don't know who people really are until you're friends with them. That's just one of the hard things about life. 

Pretending to be someones friend isn't good either. It makes me mad when someone pretends to be my friend, because I can tell. 

If you have a best friend and you feel like you are falling apart, talk it out. Not to another person, but to the person themselves. Talking about people behind their backs may be fun to do, but when someone does it to you, it's not very fun. It's never fun, so don't do it in the first place. It will ruin your relationship with anyone.

I have a lot of guy friends. They are have less drama. When I'm not getting along with my friends, I sometimes just talk to the guys. They're there for you. Guys might not completely understand your situation, but if you talk to them, it helps.

Part 2 coming later! :)

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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

A Girl's Guide to..

Welcome to my new series, "A Girl's Guide to...". Twice a week I will have a post up within this series.

This post series is meant for tween-teen girls. I will be giving some advice to help some of you, and also tell you about some of my experiences. I still will be posting other things beside this series, but this series will be my main focus right now! 

I'm not saying that I'm an expert or anything on all the subjects. I'm probably younger than most of you. You don't have to listen to me if you don't want to. I'm just here to help! Here are a few of the subjects we'll be going over.

Friends and Ex-Friends
Middle School
Social Lives

Some posts may have several parts. I hope you all enjoy this series! The first post will be up tomorrow!

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